As Thanksgiving approaches I think it is only natural for all of us to think back in time to the way Thanksgiving was celebrated in our homes as children. Some of us remember special times with extended family gathered at a long table or around the house. When I was a kid there was a predictable pattern to Thanksgiving. We grew up living next to my mother's parents who were part of my everyday life. The cooking would begin early and both houses would be full of the smells of onions, sage, thyme, rosemary and all encapsulated in the warm steam created by all the cooking. It was always an exhausting day, filled with both the joys and the craziness that typifies family.
Now when I say craziness, I think everyone knows what I mean. Families have patterns and dynamics that interweave all of our interactions. Surely some of these dynamics play out more positively or more negatively in different family systems. As of these memories tend to come back, unless they were traumatic, we usually remember the more positive ones.
Among the siblings birth order has a lot to do with the interplay between parents, grandparents, and children. A friend of mine clipped a page out of a catalog recently on which there were three T-shirts you could purchase. The first T-shirt was printed with 'I am the oldest , I make the rules". The second T-shirt said "I am the youngest the rules don't apply to me" . The third T-shirt, the one most appropriate for me personally said " I'm the middle I'm the reason we had rules " !
No matter what your family is like , or how widely spread they are across the country with the world I do hope you have a marvelous Thanksgiving day.
Thursday, November 19, 2015
Monday, October 26, 2015
Our Fall Speaking Events
2015 Fall Community Presentations
October 8 Maintaining a Healthy Brain: Fun and Effective
Strategies
10-11:3- AM Nate Murray and Kim Bennett
Hanson
COA
132 Maquan Street
781-293-2683
October 14 I
didn’t Know There Was Help Out There; resources for you when you need them
12:30-1:30PM Kim Bennett
Kingston
COA 28Evergreen Street, Kingston
781-585-0512
Pre-Registration
October 21 Health and Fitness Fair. Come Visit Us!
10AM-2PM Nate Murray and Kim Bennett
YMCA
75 Mill Street, Hanover
781-829-8585 Pre-Registration
October 28 Lost in Time; Effective Strategies for Dementia care at
home
12:-1:30PM Kim Bennett
Kingston
COA 28Evergreen Street, Kingston
781-585-0512
Pre-Registration
October 28 When Caregiving Ends; Managing Your Changing Role
7-8PM Hingham
Elder Services, 228 Central Street, Himgham
Kim Bennett
781-741-1458
Pre-Registration
November 13 Hope Dementia Caregiver Support Group
12:30- 2PM Kim Bennett
Old Colony Senior Services, 144 Main
Street, Brockton
(800) 242-0246 Pre-Registration
November 16 Aging Mastery Program: Healthy Relationships
Noon-2PM Kim Bennet
Kingston COA 28 Evergreen Street, Kingston
781-585-0512
Pre-Registration
November 23 Aging Mastery Program: Don’t Fall! A Fall Prevention
presentation
Noon-2 Nate Murray
Kingston COA 28 Evergreen Street
781-585-0512
Pre-Registration
Friday, June 27, 2014
Monday, June 23, 2014
When Things Heat Up!
Well once again summer has
arrived on the South Shore.
FINALLY! I know that some of us
thought it would never come. But the passing of the summer
solstice means that we will soon have conditions that will require us to think
carefully about our clients as well as ourselves.
The two most common issues
that we need to be aware of are adequate hydration and overheating. As you
know, many elders feel cold even on the warmest days. As a result they often
will have the windows closed on the hottest and most humid days of the summer.
They feel comfortable, but of course it can be potentially dangerous. It is
also important in those situations that you, the Caregiver, take care of yourself as well.
What
are the signs of overheating? They are profuse sweating, fatigue, and muscle
cramps. More advanced symptoms can include headache, dizziness, weakness,
nausea, vomiting and dark urine. This could be the beginning of heatstroke
which is a much more dangerous event. These symptoms include fever, confusion,
rapid shallow breathing and even unconsciousness.
What is first aid for
something like this? Have the person lie down in a cool place. Raise the
clients feet about 12 inches. Apply cool, wet cloths to the person’s skin and
use a fan to lower body temperature. If they are showing more significant
symptoms as noted above call 911.
Dehydration is the real
danger in hot weather. Some of these symptoms are similar to heat exhaustion.
They include increased thirst, a dry or swollen tongue, headache and confusion.
The best way to avoid dehydration is prevention. Make sure that your client and
you are consuming enough fluids. Consider sports drinks which contain
electrolytes and decrease the likelihood of developing dehydration. Remember
our clients especially if they have dementia may not realize they are thirsty.
So you may want to encourage them and remind them to drink. Obviously keep in
mind any restrictions they may have.
I hope you all have a great summer.
Nate
Tuesday, June 3, 2014
Need a Break?
“Angel Beach Days”
Need a break from
caring for an elderly loved one this summer?
Our
"Angels Beach Day" gives an entire day of comfort so you can go to
the beach or boating. Let our
professional, skilled Angels provide companionship, meals, medication reminders
and personal care while you get a day to relax and enjoy some worry free time.
An entire 8 hour day is only $199
Visiting
Angels is the most trusted name in private home care. We have been providing South Shore families
with the best in-home senior care for over 14 years. Call us today at 781-834-6355 to make an appointment for your FREE in home consultation.
You can book
days from June 5 through September 30 but the offer expires July 1, 2014 so…..
Book your Angel Beach Days today!
Angel Beach Days can be scheduled in advance anytime from
June 5th through September 30. Regular
weekend differential and cancellation polices apply. See your service agreement for more
information.
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Friday, May 16, 2014
5 Spring Cleaning Safety Tips for Senior Citizens
Does your kitchen look like a display ad for
gadgets and counter-top appliances? Does all of the excess furniture lying
around your living space look like it should be in a yard sale? If you
answered “yes” or even a reluctant “no”, then it’s time to freshen up your
home. Spring is the season of renewal, so get caught up in the fever and throw
out the junk and re-organize your space! For seniors citizens and their
caregivers, these five spring cleaning tips are for safety first.
1. Check the Medicine Cabinet
Are medications labeled and stored in their
proper containers? Do you have old prescription drugs mixed in with the new?
These common practices in homes pose potentially dangerous health
hazards. Whereas some medications still retain their potency after
expiration dates, many do not and should be disposed of. Old liquid antibiotics,
drugs comprised of organic ingredients and those requiring refrigeration should
be safely discarded.
Be sure to store medications in a cool, dark,
dry place; the bathroom does not fit that category. A better place is an
airtight plastic container on a shelf in your closet.
2. Clean Up Clutter
Trips and falls are likely to happen when you
accumulate too much “stuff”. Reduce the risk by removing unnecessary and
obstructive items (including furniture) from your regular walking path and
place them in storage. Make maintaining a clear walkway in every room of the
house or apartment a top priority. And either tape carpet edges or throw
rugs to the floor or get rid of them entirely.
In the kitchen, remove infrequently used
appliances off the counter, organize cabinets, create front row spaces for
frequently use items, and clear out the refrigerator and pantry of stale food.
3. Have an Emergency Plan in Place
In case of an emergency such as a fall, an
attempted burglary, or a kitchen accident, do you have important numbers on
speed dial? Know who to call in an emergency and have your phone programmed,
accordingly.
If you reside in an assisted living community,
be sure you understand how the emergency response system works. Just like
when you were living in a neighborhood, look out for others and know who to go
to for help.
4. Never Try to Move Heavy Objects or Furniture on Your Own
For seniors with reduced strength or mobility
challenges, doing household chores may seem like a monumental task. Never try to
move furniture or heavy objects on your own. Don’t stand on a chair or
ladder to clean hard to reach spots or change light bulbs. Use cordless
cleaning tools and lightweight equipment which are easier to use. Try the
newer, more efficient technology tools on the market designed to make modern
household cleaning a breeze.
5. Monitor Your Smoke Alarm System, Fire Extinguisher and
Emergency Kit
Periodically check your smoke alarm system and
carbon monoxide detectors; run a test to ensure batteries for detectors are
functional.
Every home should have at least two handheld
fire extinguishers (one in the kitchen for sure). Check the expiration
date and remind yourself to monitor the device every once in a while.
Emergency kits should be assessed often and
restocked in the Spring and Winter. General contents may include: a flashlight
and spare batteries, thermometer, Band-Aids, scissors, tape, triple antibiotic
ointment, wound care dressings, allergy and digestive medications, protein
bars, a current medication list and names and phone number of family or friends
to contact list in an emergency.
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